That ain't PC, Bitches!
As I recall the conversations I had with others as a child, it seems a large amount of that time was spent making fun of each other or other people. I don’t know if it was something that we picked up from adults or if we were just finding it hard to distinguish ourselves as individuals with no really great role models to reinforce good behavior. Either way, I remember walking home from school each day and the whole conversation was one set of kids making fun of another set. This would go on back and forth until the last kid found his home and there was no one left to rabble with. Back then hair color, weight or general ugliness were the points of interest or contention. Rarely would someone bring up sex, race or creed. That was the 1970s.
In the 1980s and 1990s, people seemed to be a little more conscious of their differences. Certain things became off limits and taboo to speak about. They just wasn’t Politically Correct. As if born in some suburban utopia, the phrase “PC” became a way to describe not only topics not to be spoken of, but became a general list of forbidden ideals and notions.
Beyond racism, almost every known generalization became targets for the “PC” police. I finally drew the line when a friend of mine who just happen to have very dark skin informed me that was offensive for me to refer to them as black. I had been trained that African American had become the preferred reference but did not understand how to be called black was offensive. He told me that he was of a Jamaican French ancestry. He and related that black was a color reference that lumped him in with all the other people who were slaves at the time his ancestors arrived. Black was the white man's way of stripping away the individuality of people and casting them all into one class devoid of nationality. They were all slaves and all slaves were black.
I began to see that everybody has a way that they are viewed that they do not agree with. Nobody can be conscious of all the nuances and distinctions of discrimination that bother people. To be overly conscious of some biases that doesn't mean you don't have other prejudices that exist below the surface or are imbedded in your upbringing. Me and my friends saw the politically correct movement for what it was, another attempt for some people in society to act like they're better than everybody else. We quickly dawned these elitists with a PC name of our own, we called them “Hippies”.
Mind you we were in Texas. With fervor and reverence, we never missed a chance to hang the label “damn hippies” on any one who acted holier than thou or one out of their way to make someone pick up their trash or inform someone that they weren't recycling properly. Livin’ in Austin Texas you could imagine the fun we had watching the confused looks, faces of people,: convinced that they were born to be their brother's keeper, twist as we would mutter “hippies” under our breaths as they questioned the Starbucks waiter as to the organic nature of the creamer or the recycled paper content of the cup. Years later in a slightly related social linguistic experiment we indoctrinated many young white urban kids bent on saying the word “nigga” and got them to switch it with the word “bitches” …. Yeah, that was me….
I thoroughly enjoyed your opinion on this matter. I agree with your point that every person has a certain way they do not like to be referred as. As many blacks don't like to be called "black", I am sure there are white people who do not like to be called "white"...although I have not met one yet. It is difficult to keep up with all the rules of political correctness so I wonder sometimes, why do we call black people black? Maybe it is because I don't feel like saying "Those folks of Jamaican French ancestry over there..." and I don't expect anyone to say "That girl from Dutch, French, African descent over there..." when they could just say "that white girl". But I am aware of the connotations that many words have and that sometimes they are not very positive...so I say African American when I can and go about my business when people call me white.
ReplyDeleteI think PC is something that we deal with everyday and it is because people know the extent to which words can express emotions, specifically hatred. Things have definitely changed over the years and attempts to control the language in media, politics, and homes is something that we will keep struggling with because everyone is different.
To: J.M
ReplyDeleteI was born in the 1990's and I never came across a full experience of "PC". I also have a similar story like yours that includes the fact that I used to talk about others among my peers and I'm pretty sure everyone has come across this in their lives. Honestly, I still find entertainment in talking about others, but the only difference is that I also talk about myself and try to avoid others by talking about things that matter in life instead of gossip.
I've never put things that we don't want to talk about(taboo) in the "PC" category. I never knew it existed.I'm going to have to disagree with the fact that you thought the politically correct movement was another attempt for some people in society to act like they were better than everybody else. I guess it was just a way to avoid problems, another way to avoid the fact that things are possible in this world, incredible or horrible.I'm under the impression that you feel as if people who are "going green" are like hippies in a sense and that they are part of this whole politically correct movement? I would like to hear more about what you think about the fact that kids bent on the saying the word "nigga." Since you said that you were the one that had them switch it to "bitches", why do you think this was necessary?
This was a very interesting blog, thanks for sharing!